Saturday, 20 October 2007

Remembering Mum


Well, it's been two years now since Mum died and I still miss her! The photo here is how I like to remember her, before the alzheimers set in and she changed her personality and became so much more dependent.


Mum was a fighter and although very small and slim was always full of energy. It was on those nights when Dad was on duty at the fire station, we would have a cozy time together, chatting on the sofa with our tea and toast. Those were the times I felt I could tell her anything at all and indeed did. They were special moments and ones to be treasured. There was nothing that my Mum would not do for me and she was simply the best at finding anything that was lost!
Her last two years on this earth were very difficult and I really cannot bear to think upon them even now.
It is important to remember the good times and the heaps of things to be thankful for. I always knew that my Mum loved me very much despite our very dysfunctional family.
And now I have tea and toast with my daughters on the sofa and listen to their stories and feel privileged that they want to share with me their inner most thoughts.

2 comments:

Posy said...

Hello Sheila,

Thank you for your kind words on my blog. I'm so glad that your charity shop foray was so productive - isn't it a wonderful feeling!
I'm sorry you don't have your mum with you, they do play such an important role in tour lives and leave such a hole when they are no longer around. I have nearly lost my mother but she pulled through, thankfully.
I hope you enjoy the world of blogging; the people are so kind.
Have a lovely weekend,
Warmest,
Jane (Posy)

Binny said...

Hi Sheila,
I'm new to this, but I saw your comment on 'Posy' and thought I'd come and have a look at your blog.
It's lovely, Sheila.
The photo of your Mum caught my eye. I lost my Mum in 1994 at the age of 70. I miss her, and think about her every day. It isn't easy, is it?
I look forward to reading your blog in the months ahead.
I'll ask my husband about your photos. They may simply be too big (as in too many megabytes).
Take care,
Binny (in New Zealand)